Best Self-help Books May 2025

Lean In

In “Lean In,” Sheryl Sandberg offers a candid, personal take on women in the workplace. Drawing from her own experiences, she tackles the thorny issues of gender inequality with refreshing honesty. I found her anecdotes relatable and her advice practical. While some may disagree with her approach, Sandberg’s passion for empowering women shines through. It’s a thought-provoking read that challenged my own assumptions about career and family. Whether you agree with her or not, it’s sure to spark conversations.

Yes Please

In her candid memoir, Amy Poehler invites readers into her world with wit and warmth. From childhood antics to SNL shenanigans, she dishes on it all. Poehler’s voice shines through, making you feel like you’re chatting with an old friend over coffee. She tackles tough topics with humor and grace, offering nuggets of wisdom along the way. It’s a delightful romp through the life of a comedy icon that’ll leave you laughing and inspired.

The 5 Love Languages

In this eye-opening book, Gary Chapman explores the secret to lasting love. Through years of counseling couples, he discovered five distinct ways people express and receive love. Chapman’s warm, practical approach helps readers identify their own love language and that of their partner, fostering deeper connections and mutual understanding. With relatable anecdotes and actionable advice, this guide offers a fresh perspective on relationships, making it a must-read for anyone seeking to enrich their romantic life.

Extreme Ownership

In “Extreme Ownership,” former Navy SEALs Jocko Willink and Leif Babin share hard-hitting combat experiences and apply them to leadership challenges in business and life. Their no-excuses approach is refreshingly direct, urging readers to take complete responsibility for their actions and decisions. I found myself nodding along, recalling times I’d shirked accountability. The authors’ vivid war stories kept me engaged, while their practical advice left me inspired to step up and own my choices, both good and bad.

Can’t Hurt Me

David Goggins’ “Can’t Hurt Me” is a raw, unflinching journey through pain and transformation. From an abusive childhood to becoming a Navy SEAL, Goggins shares his brutal path to self-mastery. His unforgettable story pushes readers to confront their own limitations, challenging us to dig deeper and find our inner strength. I found myself wincing at his grueling experiences, yet inspired by his relentless drive. It’s not just a memoir; it’s a wake-up call to push beyond our comfort zones.

Make Your Bed

Admiral McRaven’s “Make Your Bed” is a gem of wisdom, distilled from his Navy SEAL experience. I found myself nodding along as he shared ten simple yet profound life lessons. His anecdotes, both poignant and humorous, resonated deeply. The book’s brevity belies its impact – I’ve caught myself straightening my sheets with newfound purpose. It’s a quick read that lingers, offering practical advice for facing life’s challenges with grit and grace.

12 Rules for Life

In this thought-provoking guide, Peterson draws on his clinical experience and deep understanding of philosophy and mythology to offer practical wisdom for navigating life’s challenges. With refreshing honesty and wit, he tackles everything from personal responsibility to the importance of standing up straight. I found myself nodding along, challenged, and occasionally disagreeing – but always engaged. It’s a book that lingers in your mind long after you’ve put it down, prompting reflection on how to live with greater purpose and resilience.

The Book of Joy

In this heartwarming collaboration, two spiritual giants share their wisdom on finding lasting happiness in a changing world. Through intimate conversations, the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu explore the nature of true joy, offering profound insights and practical advice. Their infectious laughter and deep friendship shine through, reminding us that even in the face of adversity, joy is always possible. A truly uplifting read that will leave you feeling inspired and hopeful.

The Art of Happiness

In this profound exploration of joy, the Dalai Lama shares his wisdom on finding true contentment. Through intimate conversations with psychiatrist Howard Cutler, His Holiness reveals how we can cultivate inner peace amidst life’s challenges. I found myself nodding along, recognizing universal truths in his gentle insights. The book’s blend of Eastern philosophy and Western psychology offers a unique perspective on happiness that lingered with me long after I turned the final page. A must-read for anyone seeking a more fulfilling life.

Start with Why

In “Start with Why,” Simon Sinek challenges readers to rethink leadership and inspiration. Drawing from real-world examples, he argues that great leaders inspire action by focusing on the ‘why’ behind their vision. Sinek’s engaging prose and thought-provoking insights make this more than just another business book. It’s a call to rediscover purpose in our work and lives. As I read, I found myself nodding along, seeing my own experiences in a new light. A must-read for anyone seeking to lead or inspire others.